About

Founded by Rob Kancler, who transformed his own intimate life after years of intense frustration and two decades of immersive study with world-renowned teachers across multiple disciplines.

Bedroom Genius exists because most people today are disconnected from their innate sexual intelligence and abilities. But this work is about far more than just better sex—it’s about becoming whole, aligned, and fully expressed. And at its center is a dedication to love and freedom.

My Journey

After intense frustration with my own sexual challenges, I went on a journey that took me far beyond conventional approaches. What started as a goal to fix performance issues evolved into a profound exploration of consciousness, embodiment, and human potential.

My path has woven through intensive study in:

Somatic methodologies and body-based transformation
Tantric and Taoist sexual practices and energy work
Yogic science and other spiritual modalities
Trauma therapies and developmental psychology
Group field explorations and emergent interpersonal phenomena

I discovered the lasting solution which address root issues usually wasn’t adding more technique, skills, etc… it was removing the blocks to what’s already there — our innate sexual intelligence and abilities.

Beyond Sexuality

While sex is a core focus of my life and work, my exploration extends into numerous interconnected domains:

Embodiment & Consciousness: Consciousness is at the root of everything, and how we inhabit our bodies determines our capacity for presence, good feelings, and authentic expression across all areas of life.
Interpersonal Dynamics & Intimacy: Understanding attraction, dating, arousal, and what creates openness, safety, and desire.
Emergent Field Work: Exploring how groups create collective fields of consciousness and what becomes possible, natural, and fun in these shared spaces.
Psychological Development: How our nervous systems and identity organizes around early experiences and how we can easily shift this for greater love, freedom, creativity, and abundance.

My Approach

What sets this work apart is the integration of these diverse fields into a coherent methodology that is effective for positive, lasting change at the root levels. I don’t just teach sexual techniques—I help men restore their natural sexual intelligence and abilities through the Core Four Framework:

What Drives Me

I’m a disruptor, experimenter, artist, and improviser at heart. I like to approach things with scientific precision and playful curiosity. Those who know me best describe me as earnest, grounded, and devotional…and also bold, tender, unpredictable, and here for a good time.

I love this quote by the Aghori Vimalananda – it’s been with me for years:

“And there is a practice which I follow every night before going to sleep. It is very simple, but it has helped me immensely, and it can help anyone who uses it. It involves only three questions: Have I lived? Have I loved? Have I laughed?

Have I lived? Have I made the best use of the time provided me during that day to grow, to learn, to develop?

Have I loved? Have I reached out to everyone I met and made them aware of the love in my heart and eased their burdens of self-mistrust and self-doubt?

Have I laughed? Have I seen the humorous side of even the most painful incident?

If the answer to any one of these questions is no, then it is a matter for remorse. One more day has passed and I am another day closer to my death…”

My work is here to help people answer “yes” to these questions more consistently, creating lives of deeper satisfaction, connection, and authentic power, and ultimately benefiting us all. I am my #1 case study.

And as Vimalananda also said: “Don’t take anything I say as gospel truth. I am human, I make mistakes. Test on yourselves what I’ve told you. Try it out, experience it, and then you will know whether or not I’m telling you the truth.”

email us at Hello@bedroomgenius.com for questions.