MEN OF SUBSTANCE™

Hey, Rob here.

I’m going to share what Men Of Substance™ is and what it’s about, then you can decide if you want to join.

I created this program because I haven’t seen anywhere men could go to get what it takes for complete sexual fulfillment, and it's very obvious most men want that.

This is not just techniques, tricks, or "how to blow her mind" advice, but the actual foundation for:

● Transcendental sexual experiences

● Harmonious, passionate, lasting, drama-free intimate relationships

● True sexual mastery

Despite the desire and all our efforts, almost no one experiences this. And I think every single man would have a better life if they would…never mind what it’s like for the women and the greater impacts on society as a whole… and I’ve helped men from ages 20-70 get this outcome.

Inside the program I’m going to show you the simple insights and processes so that you can understand how sexual energy works at a fundamental level – so you know what to do and when, and how to spot opportunities for deeper intimacy, pleasure, orgasm, sexual power, and ecstatic states that most men never see or know how to work with.

..It’s not rocket science and just takes some consistency over a few weeks’ time. Once you see it you’ll never be the same.

That’s what Men of Substance is, and if that’s what you’re looking for then read on…It’s an 8-minute read and the sign up info is at the bottom.

I’ve spent two decades obsessively studying sex, orgasm, body intelligence, sexual alchemy, etc, and have accumulated a lot of experiences, insights, and abilities…5 or 6 years ago I started casually sharing what I know and people started asking me to offer something more.

I did many underground labs and experiments over the years, and in June 2023 Men Of Substance started. We ran it as a 2 – 4 month program and the results were consistent:

Men said they had the “best sex of our lives, by far”
Life-long premature ejaculation issues were gone
Limiting and demoralizing erection problems stopped
Men and their partners reported “mystical experiences” they didn’t know were possible
20-30 year marriages “revitalized to unforeseen levels”, beyond the good ol’ days of their honeymoon period
Guys had the “most incredible sex ever” after thinking their partners were to blame for their dissatisfaction
Single men found partners and ended long dry-spells
Men who thought they were well-past their sexual prime said they had the best sex of their lives
Men who felt insecure about their sexual performance discovered their authentic sexual power
Guys facing “mismatched libido” issues found their partners interested in having lots of sex as the quality of the intimacy changed
Wives and girlfriends who had never experienced orgasm (or only certain kinds of orgasm, from certain kinds of stimulus) reported a variety of totally new orgasms and experiences

The Wives and girlfriends shared:

“I’ve never trusted him this much”
“I’ve never experienced myself like this”
“I’ve never felt safe to go into these places”
“I’ve never had orgasms like that before”
“Wow. Nothing even close to that, ever”

The men said:

They had “the best sex of our lives”, “of our 10 year relationship”, etc.
They “never experienced anything like this” or “knew it was possible”
They “recommend this work like I recommend drinking water”
They got “100x ROI” on the investment

Making these things happen is simple once you know how, and the truth is almost all men don’t know how.

And because of this, they feel incomplete and like something important is missing from their lives.

Because something is missing from their lives.

Admitting this to yourself is an important step. It means you’re strong enough to be honest with yourself, and it’s the only way things can change.

…Yet most guys will never learn this stuff only because they would first have to admit they don’t yet have these abilities, and they won’t…that’s the ego and its defenses. So good on you for your honesty.

This program is about unlocking your potential. That’s what you’ll have in the end. With the “how” of how sexual energy works, you can paint any picture you want.

Want total confidence? You’ll have it.
Want to trust, without question, in your ability to satisfy? You will.
Want to be desired, wanted, pursued? I got you.
Want to be admired for how you make love to her, for how you fuck her? It’s a natural part of the process.
Want to be able to do things no one else can do, meet her where no one else can, or has, or will? You will.
Want to catalyse the deepest, most profound orgasms? It’ll happen.

Here’s the truth: If you don’t learn certain critical things about sex and intimacy you shouldn’t expect these results.

…and if the people you learn from are limited in their understanding and experiences, it won’t work either. Which is how it is for almost all sex, tantra, and intimacy teachers. I know this is true because I’ve read the books, done the courses, gone to the workshops, and have personally explored with many acclaimed teachers and their top students. I have seen the misunderstanding and limitation myself, up close and personal.

And no, you wanting a great sex life is not immature, selfish, or unimportant. It’s about being whole as a man and living in integrity with yourself. It’s better for relationships, communities, and the world when a man has success, satisfaction, and abundance in his sex life.

…The impacts of not having this compound over the years and decades: affecting relationships, self-perception, reputation, opportunities, creativity, health, energy levels, and overall feelings about yourself, your partner, and your life.

The statistics tell the story: Rising divorce rates, sexless relationships, cheating, porn addiction, obsession with “sex tips”, erectile dysfunction in younger and younger men, prevalence of Viagra, Cialis, etc, women not having orgasms or even wanting sex…the list goes on… Plus the intense loneliness many men experience that changes when you have these skills. And how sexual insecurity and not being fulfilled subtly impacts self-perception, reputation, and social and professional opportunities. The cost is very real.

In our world of sex obsession and taboo, almost no one sees it for what it actually is…

The incredible value of having a great sex life based on integrity and abundance.

And the truly massive cost of not.

…You’re about to learn how to change all this at the root.

What Men Experience

*All testimonials are from real clients or their partners. Names and identifying details have been modified to protect privacy.

"We've had the best sex and most frequent sex we've ever had."

"I got a new reference point that normalizes sex as a deep spiritual experience…a lot more real and accessible than what books say."

“My girlfriend’s mental health has improved since I started fucking her like this.”

"This isn't just about better sex—though that naturally happens. What emerged was a level of presence, connection and authentic power that transformed every area of my life."

"She said she trusted me more than she ever has before."

“This shifted my apprehension about embracing darker aspects of myself.”

"The trust and intimacy between us has reached levels I didn't know were possible. I HIGHLY recommend"

“I enjoy sex so much more than other guys and know I’m so much better at it than they are, it feels not fair. Just join the program.”

"We've enjoyed the most liberating, ecstatic intimate moments of our 10-year relationship."

"After 15 years of marriage, our sex life had become routine. I tried everything - books, toys, couples therapy. Nothing worked until this. Now my wife initiates more than I do, and the quality is beyond anything I’ve known."

What their partners say

"I've never had orgasms like that before. He unlocked something in me I didn't know was there."

"That was the most full and complete orgasm I've ever felt. It's so different now—so much more connected."

"This has cracked the armor around my heart and offered deep healing that I feel to my core."

"He’s more confident, more present... and I can’t get enough of him."

"I feel more attracted to him than ever. It’s like we’re newly in love again."

"Our (sexual) relationship has always been great, but now it's on a whole new level."

“I have never heard any of my friends talk about having experiences like I’m having since my husband joined the program.”

So, here’s the deal:

After you join this program, you will have the best sex you’ve ever had.

This will happen over and over again. For both you and your partner.

You’re going to be one of the best. Better than 99.99% of men who are not in the program.

If you promise to show up and do the work, I promise you will get this outcome.

Who's This For

Men who:

Admit there's a depth to sex they want but haven't accessed yet
Are tired of feeling like "this isn't what I want"
Have buried desires and lowered expectations
Want real sexual power, authenticity, and relational depth – not just tricks or hacks
Are willing to participate fully, try new things, and engage openly and honestly

If this is you, single or partnered, you’re invited to join.

This isn’t for everyone. It’s not for you if:

You're looking to "hack" your way to better sex
You’re looking for manipulation tactics or view sex as purely physical performance
Think you have it all figured out
Aren't willing to approach this with an open mind or try new things
Won’t show up on the calls or participate fully

Here’s what’s included:

✅ Live Call Each Week With Rob on Tuesday at 11:00 A.M. EST

Weekly training and coaching call via Zoom that’s approximately 2-3 hours. These calls are interactive, emergent, and co-created. We cover everything from the basics to advanced teachings, the ordinary and extraordinary – deep learning, personal support, Q&A, round table discussions, transformational exercises, and breakout rooms.

✅ Replay Call on Wednesday at 6:00 P.M. EST:

We host a guided replay call every week for anyone who couldn’t make the Tuesday call – 9-5er’s, men in other timezones, etc. Any breakouts, activities & exercises, and round table discussions will happen live. Rob joins for a Q&A / Coaching session at the end and/or beginning of this call.

✅ Personal Support, Coaching, and Assignments:

You’re never on your own in this journey. Receive direct, personalized coaching, tailored feedback, and individual structured assignments to ensure real progress. Rob and his team will help you navigate challenges, celebrate breakthroughs, and deepen your practice in a way that fits your life, interests, personality, and relationships

✅ Guest Calls From World-Renown And Underground Experts:

We bring in top experts on sexual mysticism, conscious relationship, trauma healing, sexual and pelvic health care, and more.

✅ Recordings and Replays of All Calls:

Watch and rewatch as often as you need – you’re getting video replays, audio replays, and transcripts from every call.

✅ Call, Training & Coaching Summaries:

Notes and timestamps to make every call easier to digest and rewatch later.

✅ Original Erotic Circuitry™, Fucking Fitness™, and Somatic Journey Bonus Calls:

Regular guided sessions to support your body and mind to be tuned up and dropped in, activated and balanced to anchor the good feelings and deep learning you are looking for.

✅ Accountability Groups, Council Calls, and Learning Partners:

Small groups and pairs to support each other to make more progress, stay consistent, learn more, and chat with other like-minded men.

✅ Books & Courses:

A curated database of the best books, courses, and other resources in every area of personal, spiritual, and professional development.

✅ Emergent, Precise, and Intuitively Guided Work:

Because there is no mechanical process or step-by-step formula that can meet the complexity and nuance that people bring to this subject.

The price

The price is $3,000 and $300 a month starting on the 3rd month. You can cancel any time.

Why the upfront? Because sexual mastery isn’t a trick or something to consume. The container and its pricing are made for what actually works, and to hedge against what can get in the way of real and lasting transformation.

✔ Solid Foundation – Everyone is immersed in the same essential principles and practices

✔ Anchored Community – Men committed to the same journey, creating stability and momentum

✔ Protected Space – In contrast to today’s warped sexual culture, we create a container where authenticity, integrity, and vulnerability can flourish

Feel free to come in and get what you need and bounce — 2 or 3 months is plenty for most. How deep and far you want to go is up to you.

How to sign up

Find Rob Kancler on FB, or write me on Whatsapp at +1.772.300.6207 to discuss joining.

Email us at hello@bedroomgenius.com for questions.

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